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WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU DOES NOT MATTER
WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELF MATTERS MOST
let me tell you a story for this.
I know you will thinking about the man and the son who went to market to sell a donkey. On the way they met people who remarked about son walking and father riding the donkey.So they exchanged places and many remarked about son riding and father walking, so both sat and rode. people commented about the poor donkey carrying heavy weight.Now both got down and lifted the donkey. The donkey ran away kicking both son and father. This is how we all do and allow donkeys to kick us.
LET ME TELL YOU REAL LIFE STORIES.
My friend Anusuya had a problem. When she was in sixth standard her teacher made her get out of the class which depressed her. She was an girl average in studies. In her school average child should sit with brilliant child. Now every afternoon test was conducted on different subjects. Monitor of class used to supervise and report to teacher. On one such afternoon Her friend Geeta kept Anusuya’s notebook and copied. Anusuya was picked up and sent out of class. Anusuya tried to explain but teacher did not accept. She went into depression Why?
Once my friend Keya had gone for College day. There was a partner game. She and another boy was declared partners. keya was a reserved girl. She was not prepared for other children teasing her with his name etc etc. Those days during vacation there was letters a form of communication between friends wince there was no phone, computer etc. Keya’s friend shyama wrote her a letter. She asked “How are your kith and kin?” Enough, this made keya more depressed that she had to consult a psychiatrist.
In my son’s school one boy was misbehaving in class. He brought knife to class and was talking nonsense. One good boy seeing this brought it to the notice of Principal. The principal called that scoundrel and asked him. He denied. All teachers however supported this good boy. Based on this the scoundrel was suspended. Next day the good boy was attacked by the scoundrel with cycle chain. The good boy got frightened and became school drop out. why?
WE UNDER RATE OR OVER RATE OUR-SELF, INSTEAD OF UNDERSTANDING OUR-SELF.
LISTEN TO MANY BUT DECIDE ALONE
ONCE DECIDED ACT
ONCE ACTION IS OVER DONT DESPAIR OR FEAR
FACE THE CONSEQUENCES
MAKE EVERY CONSEQUENCE A LEARNING POINT
LIFE TEACHES YOU EVERY WAY
UNDERSTAND THIS EVENT IS LIFE’S CREATION
TO TEACH HIS CHILDREN
SELECTED BY HIM
TO MAKE HIS CHILDREN STRONG AND NOT DEPRESSED
SO INTROSPECT, ANALYSE AND THEN DECIDE
ONCE DECIDED ACT THEN FOLLOW SAME STEPS MENTIONED ABOVE.
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