WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU DOES NOT MATTER

WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELF MATTERS MOST

let me tell you a story for this.

I know you will thinking about the man and the son who went to market to sell a donkey. On the way they met people remarking about son walking and father riding the donkey.So they exchanged places and many remark about son riding and father walking,  so both sat and rode. people commenting about the poor donkey carrying heavy weight.Now both got down to lift the donkey. The donkey ran away kicking both son and father. This is how we all do and allow donkeys to kick us. 

LET ME TELL YOU  REAL LIFE STORIES.

My friend Anusuya had a problem. When she was in sixth standard her teacher made her get out of the class which depressed her. She was an  girl average in studies. In her school average child should sit with brilliant child. Now every afternoon test was conducted on different subjects. Monitor of class used to supervise and report to teacher. On one such afternoon Her friend Geeta kept Anusuya’s notebook and copied. Anusuya was picked up and sent out of class. Anusuya tried to explain but teacher did not accept. She went into depression Why?

second story

Once my friend Keya went for College day. There was a partner game. She and another boy were partners. keya was a reserved girl. She was not ready for other children teasing her with his name etc etc. Those days during vacation letters were a form of communication between friends since there was no phone, computer etc. Keya’s friend shyama wrote her a letter. She asked “How are your kith and kin?” Enough, this made keya more depressed that she had to consult a psychiatrist.

Why ?

third story

In my son’s school one boy was misbehaving in class. He brought knife to class and was talking nonsense. One good boy seeing this brought it to the notice of Principal. The principal called that scoundrel and asked him. He denied. All teachers however supported this good boy. Based on this the scoundrel was suspended. Next day the good boy was attacked by the scoundrel with cycle chain. The good boy got frightened and became school drop out. why?

WE UNDER RATE  OR OVER RATE OUR-SELF, INSTEAD OF UNDERSTANDING OUR-SELF.

LISTEN TO MANY BUT DECIDE ALONE

ONCE DECIDED ACT

ONCE ACTION IS OVER DONT DESPAIR OR FEAR

FACE THE CONSEQUENCES

MAKE EVERY CONSEQUENCE A LEARNING POINT

LIFE TEACHES YOU EVERY WAY

UNDERSTAND THIS EVENT IS LIFE’S CREATION

TO TEACH HIS CHILDREN

SELECTED BY HIM

TO MAKE HIS CHILDREN STRONG AND NOT DEPRESSED

SO INTROSPECT, ANALYSE AND THEN DECIDE

ONCE DECIDED ACT THEN FOLLOW SAME STEPS MENTIONED ABOVE.

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